Thursday, September 2, 2010
The Power of One Little Compliment
Today when I was ordering my food at Panera, the barista caught me by surprise. While normally it's just the usual place your order, fake smile, take the buzzer and go, today was different. "I absolutely love your dress," the woman said. "It looks so cute and comfy!" Not only did the lack of robotic communication take me by surprise, but I was also completely flattered. She then continued by telling me the salad I ordered was a good choice, and that I seem like one healthy girl (little did she know I'm a "Healthy Chick" after all). Anyway, back to the point: this stranger's simple compliments completely made my afternoon. And they weren't even over-the-top or extravagant in any way. I walked back to find a seat beaming in confidence, just because of two little nice lines from a stranger.
This got me thinking about how I wish we saw more of these kind exchanges more often in life. Too many times throughout the day, I see people frowning and looking completely pissed off, or watch as people blurt out rude comments without thinking. I see it every day in line at Starbucks and Dunkin' Donuts. Yelling. Shouting. Snide, sarcastic comments. Impatience. It's as if people have completely forgotten how to have friendly conversation, or somehow feel as if they're superior in some way. It's sad, really. Sometimes I wish I could smack some sense into these people or force a smile onto their face. Seriously, it just makes me plain angry.
Did you ever stop to think what a teensy weensy smile or one little simply compliment could do for someone else's day? I know it sounds cliche and we've heard it a million times, but still you don't see enough of this "happy talk" anymore. And you know what? The best part about it is it's completely effortless.
So I challenge you to turn your iPod off during your next commute to work and smile at that stranger. Or actually engage in some sort of conversation with the guy that bags your groceries every. single. time. Compliment a woman you admire for her true beauty. Really, it can't hurt. And I can bet you that your tiny, little act of kindness will actually make some sort of difference on anothers day...even if you can't SEE it right away...
What are certain kind exchanges you've had lately, or something someone told you that completely brightened your day?
Posted by Rachel at 2:17 PM